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Is Your Wife Having a Hard Day?

Published 4 months ago • 1 min read


Hi Reader,

This week’s marriage wisdom comes from Simon Sinek — New York Times bestselling author of Find Your Why and Leaders Eat Last.

Has your wife ever had a hard day? Has she ever been sad? Has she ever wanted to murder one of your children? And have you ever thought, “Crap. I have no idea how to respond right now”?

If so, this 2-minute video will be worth your while.

The clip is a bit “touchy-feely,” but you won’t die. What Sinek shares is a game-changer and the metaphor he uses will stick with you.

Plus, tenderness is a sign of strength, not weakness.

There’s nothing in the world stronger than tenderness. (Han Suyin)


Put It to Work

  1. Watch the video.
  2. The next time your wife is sad or depressed or having a hard day or feels like murdering your firstborn, sit in the mud with her and simply say, “This sucks.”


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