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There are No Little Things

Published 6 months ago • 1 min read

Hi Reader,

Men with strong and sexy marriages understand the compound effect — the power of little things, done consistently over time, that lead to extraordinary results.

  • Leave a handwritten note
  • Compliment her: “I was just admiring how you...”
  • Go to bed when she does
  • Show up where she works with her favorite smoothie
  • Give her a 5-minute shoulder or foot massage
  • Hold her when she’s sad
  • Text her for no good reason, other than to say, “I was thinking about you.”

If it feels vaguely familiar — like you’re courting her all over again — you’re on the right track.


Put It to Work

  1. Do one little thing right now to move in your wife’s direction. To bring sexy back. To make your marriage a priority again.
  2. Repeat after me: “There are no little things.”


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