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The Not-So-Obvious Truth About Marriage Problems

Published 11 months ago • 1 min read

Hi Reader,

This week’s email consists of a single statement:

All big marriage problems start out as small marriage problems.

Selah.

Put It to Work

  1. What’s one small problem or issue in your marriage? Think unresolved, recurring, and annoying.
  2. Face it. Bring it out into the open. Time doesn’t heal wounds. It’s actually Miracle Grow for unaddressed issues in your marriage.
  3. Identify the story you’re telling yourself. Can you change it? Can your spouse help you change it? (See this post)
  4. If you two are still stuck, meet with an MFT (Marriage & Family Therapist) and get the help you need.
  5. Stay with it. Don’t settle! You’re worth it. Your family is worth it.
If you don’t change direction, you’ll end up where you’re heading. (Lao Tzu)


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